What will my child be told about me and the adoption?
You can provide the adoptive family with information either directly or in writing as to why you chose to make an adoption plan. In an open adoption you will be able to talk to your child about your reasons for placing with the support of the adoptive parents. Adoptive families realize the importance of providing accurate information to the child as he/she grows. There are no secrets because adoption is something of great value, not shame.